Negotiation & resolving disagreements
Work through differing needs or positions to reach a workable way forward.
Why it matters
Identifying different needs can help people find a workable way forward without pretending differences have disappeared. A useful agreement takes those needs seriously and makes the next step clear to the people involved.
What this can look like
- identifies the needs behind differing positions
- looks for common ground without ignoring differences
- agrees a workable next step even where some differences remain
Youth relevance
Young people may disagree over roles in a group assignment, priorities for a youth initiative or use of a shared space. Exploring the needs behind those positions can help them reach a practical agreement while acknowledging remaining differences.
Ways young people can practise this skill
- agree responsibilities when group members have different preferences
- discuss competing priorities in a shared project
- help find a workable next step when views differ in a youth group
Connected themes
Related skills
Explore these connected skills for another perspective.
Communication
Constructive dialogue
Explore different views respectfully, using reasons and questions to keep an exchange useful.
Inclusion & diversity
Empathy & perspective-taking
Seek to understand another person's experience, feelings or viewpoint and take it into account.
Collaboration & teamwork
Collaborative working
Coordinate contributions, responsibilities and decisions towards a shared outcome.